Sunday, November 2, 2008

Weekly Events

This has been a long week for both Ben and I. I have had morning sickness everyday this week and not one day has gone without me throwing up. On top of all of that I brought a lovely cold home that I think I caught from one of the little nursery kids. I started getting sick from the cold on Tuesday and it was in full effect by Friday. Ben was even sick. We both layed in bed until noon. Ben was funny. He was really sick and he was laying in bed and I was in and out of the bathrooom throwing up and I said to Ben, "I hate today, I feel so awful" and he said, "I know how you feel" so I said, "Oh, are you pregnant too". I was just being a smart-aleck, but there was a lot of truth to it.
Poor Ben had a bad day Friday all in all. He was sick and he had to work at 2:00 and his shift was awful because all the residents were acting up then after his shift he called me on the phone (or so he says, I do not remember this conversation at all) and it woke me up and he asked if I wanted him to pick me up something from the store. He was being so nice and thoughtful, but apparently I told him that he was a jerk for something or other and then I hung up on him. I don't remember the phone call at all. I don't even remember him coming home, but I remember him getting into bed and he was so grumpy and I asked him why he was so grumpy, but he wouldn't talk to me and so I got mad at him because to my knowledge I hadn't done anything and then in the morning he told me what happened and I felt bad, but at the same time I told him I was sleep talking so he shouldn't take it personal. Poor guy.
Earlier this week Ben and I went to the monthy check up. We kind of got to hear the heart beat. The nurse turned on a monitor and noise was coming from it, but I've never seen one of those things before so I didn't know what the noise was and the nurse didn't say anything so I just thought it was the machine. Then Ben asked if the noise was the babies heartbeat and the nurse said yes and then shut it off. I wanted to choke her because she didn't explain anything and I have never done this before so how was I supposed to know what it was, so it kind of took away from the moment, but at least we know for next time.