I found a personality test online that you can compare yourself to your spouse so I made Ben take it with me. I thought that the results were pretty accurate for the most part. It was kind of funny so here is the differences between Ben and I....
Openness to Experience/Intellect
High scorers tend to be original, creative, curious, complex; Low scorers tend to be conventional, down to earth, narrow interests, uncreative.
Ben enjoys having novel experiences and seeing things in new ways.
(Your percentile: 84)
Erin is somewhat conventional.
(Their percentile: 20)
Conscientiousness
High scorers tend to be reliable, well-organized, self-disciplined, careful; Low scorers tend to be disorganized, undependable, negligent.
Ben tends to do things somewhat haphazardly.
(Your percentile: 30)
Erin is very well-organized, and can be relied upon.
(Their percentile: 89)
Extraversion
High scorers tend to be sociable, friendly, fun loving, talkative; Low scorers tend to be introverted, reserved, inhibited, quiet.
Ben tends to shy away from social situations.
(Your percentile: 37)
Erin is neither particularly social or reserved.
(Their percentile: 42)
Agreeableness
High scorers tend to be good natured, sympathetic, forgiving, courteous; Low scorers tend to be critical, rude, harsh, callous.
Ben tends to consider the feelings of others.
(Your percentile: 79)
Erin finds it easy to criticize others.
(Their percentile: 17)
Neuroticism
High scorers tend to be nervous, high-strung, insecure, worrying; Low scorers tend to be calm, relaxed, secure, hardy.
Ben remains calm, even in tense situations.
(Your percentile: 1)
Erin tends to become anxious or nervous.
(Their percentile: 71)
